I’ve had technical issues and other distractions, but I wanted to give another update on my sister.
She came home after about a week. As predicted, the insurance company decided to send her home early, against the doctor’s recommendation and the social worker’s protestations. There was not even enough time to bring medication changes to the full dosage. Fortunately, she was well enough this time to stay stable in the meantime. She continues to do well. I just had a nice talk with her. We’re both trying to lose weight and we trade successes and challenges on that front, among other things.
We can also talk about mental health issues, since I have bipolar depression and anxiety myself. I have pretty good insight into what she goes through. I like to think I offer some help in coping from what I’ve learned. And, I’d like to share more about that in coming posts.
I’m relieved she’s doing well, but I still worry about the coming years. There’s the financial issue, and the social. It’s hard to meet and keep friends when you have a serious mental illness. It’s even harder to meet a significant other.
I have to admit that she drives me nuts sometimes when she chatters incessantly. She also tends to turn the conversation back to herself a lot. I hope that I can help her to see that, and maybe learn to listen more. It’s not totally her fault. Her mind races and it’s hard to keep it all in.
It’s a hard knock life.